Did you recently encountered the question “Why do you blog?”. I do, and I always find the time to read through posts just to know why bloggers do what they do. You might be amazed at what you’d discover. From the bland, to the usual, to the eccentrically mundane reasons, bloggers have various opinions for setting up their blog. As for me, after more than 2 months of writing in this blog, I finally decided to write a post about why I blog and why I chose dialysis and kidney failure as my topic.

Why do I blog?

I blog simply because I like doing so. I am not much of a talker, and I can easily express myself through writing. I tend to grab every opportunity to write about something, and blogging, as most people could attest to, is one excellent way of doing so. Thus, here I am, blogging my heart out.

Why blog about Dialysis and Kidney Failure?

If you have been to this blog before, you’ll know that the reason behind this is fairly obvious — I am suffering from Kidney Failure and had been under Dialysis treatment for six years now. On my earlier days of writing on Dialysis Postings, my primary aim was to simply have an online journal. A kind of personal diary where I could write about my experiences with life in kidney failure and dialysis. But seeing how powerful a blog could become, I was encouraged to rearrange my purpose.

I am still blogging about my experiences in living with dialysis. But I also blog with the hope of creating awareness on the issue of kidney failure. This is a significant issue that most people wouldn’t even notice. I really can’t blame them, for I myself was completely ignorant about it before. Until I got diagnosed with the disease. It is true that it’s quite hard to detect kidney failure early enough to avoid it’s devastating effects, because it doesn’t show any symptoms on its early stages. But I do believe that having adequate information about it would forewarn people on its gravity, and would encourage them to have the initiative to take action before it’s too late.

If you are at risk of getting kidney failure, it ‘s wise to have yourself screened for kidney disease. Let my past attitude of nonchalance be a lesson to you so that you won’t find yourself in regret of not having to take any action before.

Remember, forewarned is forearmed.

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“Love is all we can take with us to the grave…”

A bit morbid isn’t it? But I must admit that there’s a grain of truth in it. You can’t take money, clothing, and any earthly thing with you when you die. But what about love? Indeed you could take the love of your family and your friends with you to the other side, for it’s in your heart and soul and nothing could take that away from you. Not even death itself. You might be wondering where am I going with this or what has this got to do with kidney failure or dialysis? Well, for two reasons, actually, that I’ve decided to blog about this subject. One is that Love is an essential need of a dialysis patient, and Two, Death is not such a peculiar matter for them anymore.

Dialysis patients needs all the love and support they can get, but most of us won’t say so. I’m not entirely sure why, and there are various reasons behind this facade. One of them is the desire to regain a certain level of normalcy to our life, telling ourselves that everything’s still the same and we don’t need that extra attention. Another is that we accept our invisible disability but doesn’t want to be a burden to our family and friends.

But you know what? I guess it’s simply the fear of being pitied. Especially by those dear to us. Know this — we dialysis patients don’t need Pity, for we already had an ample amount of that within ourselves when we were at the early stages of the fight. What we need is Love, to constantly give us the inspiration to fight. Care, to make us feel warm and included. Support, to help us ease the burden we’re carrying.

Some of us patients strive to be normal, or regain a certain amount of normalcy back into our lives. And in general terms, we are indeed still normal. We go on with our everyday business, do what we have to do, and try not to let our illness be a reason for inactivity. But at the end of each day, as we lie down to bed and when we begin to think of it as a whole, we come to realize that it’s simply not the same anymore. I guess Kidney Failure doesn’t just deprive you of your kidney’s function… it also takes away a part of yourself.

In my case, I’ve long accepted my illness, along with it’s subsequent complications and consequences. I had my share of depressions, pain, and suffering. But after six years of fighting, I’m still here, willing to continue the battle for as long as it takes. If you could see me today, you would never think that I suffer from kidney failure, or undergo dialysis treatment. But the truth is that deep inside me, all that remains is that of a weary traveler.

If somebody dear to you suffers from the illness, give them your love and support. There’s no appropriate time to give these so just give it anytime. Neither must you expect them to tell you that they’re in need of your attention, for this is not likely to happen. Simply reach out at any time and at any moment.

It’s hard enough for us patients to cope with our ailment, harder for us to brace ourselves each time we endure the rigors of treatment, and hardest for us to think that everytime we go to dialysis, there’s always a possiblity that we might not be getting back. Morbid? Yes it is, but it’s one of the uncertainties that we patients must learn to accept and live with.

A simple reminder that a family’s or friend’s patient is always there for him. A simple touch of care, a simple pat on the shoulder for encouragement, a simple nod of assurance that everything would be all right, even if it’s only half-true. Simple things that makes a great difference to suffering mind and an aching body.

A warm embrace for a weary soul.

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